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Published: 23:44, 14 March 2023

Common mistakes men make when proposing marriage

Not everyone gets married for love anymore. In our culture it is more common to see and hear marriage in the family. In such marriages, the opinion of parents or other family members is given more importance than that of the bride and groom. A problem here is that the marriage takes place before the bride and groom know much about themselves. Men can make some mistakes when it comes to marriage proposals. Let's find out what they are-

  • Give opinion by listening to others

In arranged marriages, the bride and groom naturally do not know each other well. In this case, the groom has the right to know about the bride. But in most cases, it is seen that the groom agrees to the marriage after hearing the words of the bride from other family members. It affects later life. Many types of problems can arise while traveling together. So don't listen to others, but give your opinion only after knowing well.

  • Not talking to the bride

After marriage you will be together for the rest of your life. So it is important to know each other. Before marriage, you should talk to the bride. Many people make the mistake here. He agreed to the marriage without talking to the bride. If there is talk, it is limited to the exchange of skills. Instead of making this mistake, introduce yourself and learn about him. Also find out whether he is in favor of marriage or not.

  • Lying

No lie is good. No matter how you make it up, a lie will never come true. Many men arrange Galgappo before marriage. He lies in response to any words of his wife. Like pretending to have what he doesn't have, exaggerating, etc. But even if the bride's mind is temporarily satisfied, the problem increases if the lies are caught after the marriage. So always tell the truth. There will be no fear of getting into trouble later.

  • Concealment of financial status

Money is needed to run a family. Nowadays, no matter how much the income is, many people have to struggle to run the family. Many people hide their financial status from the bride or her family. Increase the income as much as you can. Later, when the truth came out, the lie became clear. It increases the problem, not decreases it. So tell as much as you can. Don't hide financial status.

  • Getting married under pressure

There are not few men who get married only because of family pressure even though the bride is not preferred. The wife may be disliked, it should not be hidden. Marriage is yours, not others. So you express your opinion clearly. Never take a difficult and important decision like marriage under pressure.

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